Well, now that I've got your attention I want to explore the issue of sucking at things which result in our having to make extreme resolutions year after year. I am going to make an attempt to write this post in first person so that I can take full responsibility for my own sucking. However, even if this post sounds personal I would love you to join me on my mission for a suck free 2014.
First, lets think about my New Years Resolutions for 2013. I started my blog this time last year with a post entitled "Flowing into the New Year" where I wrote about my resolutions and how I was going to accomplish them. My resolutions for last year were shared with millions: to lose weight, get healthy and tone up which would all bring happiness making me a better person. How did I do? I kept up with my gym routine and watched what I ate, but didn't deny myself completely and lost 10 pounds. I'm happy with that especially since I don't seem to remember 2013 being a year of deprivation and actually quite enjoyed it. I guess I'm not so sucky afterall. So here are my resolutions for 2014 and how I intend to keep them:
1. Suck It In Less: As in, lose more weight and get more toned so I won't have to suck it in to feel comfortable. Another ten pounds this year would bring me within 5 pounds of my ultimate weight loss goal so this is important. I need to eat less and move more. It's ok to not eat chips when everyone else is, that's why God made baked kale. There really aren't any great excuses to skip the gym for days at a time, especially when it's cold out. Now let's talk about sucking it in less in relation to our environment. I'm the type of person that is heavily influenced by my environment, taking in energies from all directions and have actually been compared to a crystal in regards to that sense. If someone around me is acting negatively I tend to suck that in and it affects my own behavior as well.
This year I intend to change the subject whenever someone starts speaking negatively and remember to smile when I do so. I also intend to stop sucking in negative energies associated with bad choices whether of my own or choices of others. This is something I can say I do not completely suck at. I am a totally different person today than I was ten years ago.
2. Suck It Up Less: Crappy things happen to good people all the time and I'm no different. In fact, when you look at the big picture, nothing really sucky has ever happened to me, ever. I am grateful for everything life is offering me and has given me in the past. I am happy to have had bad experiences because without them I wouldn't have the understanding I do today.
3. Stop Sucking My Finances: Stop allowing foolish purchases to suck my bank account dry. Let's talk about the money I've spent on clothes that don't even fit right. Those jeans in my drawer were $15 cheaper than a pair that fit me better so I bought them instead. Now I have a pair of jeans that are too big around the waist and can also be considered bell bottom style that I will never wear. That $15 I saved caused me to have to go and buy another pair of jeans I will wear that do fit and not to mention they are taking up space in my overflowing garment collection. That one pair of jeans isn't the real problem, it's when I relate that pair of jeans to other expenditures in my life that I realize I need to work on that. I'm not going to stop buying jeans but I might spend a little more for fewer pairs of jeans. Another way to stop sucking my finances is through beauty products, creams, cleansers and home spritzers. I have a plan for that too and have already been experimenting with essential oils, extracts and rose water and do not even feel guilty one bit.
4. Stop Allowing Others To Suck The Life Out Of Me: You've read my resolutions and you are either cheering me on or not. Some of you might doubt that I will stick to any of these goals. I don't believe that at all. My biggest motto in life is what my Mother always says, " You can do anything if you set your mind to it." If you are with me, namaste, and I wish you the best that 2014 has to offer. If you aren't with me on this then you can just go suck it! Life's too short to worry about pleasing everyone.
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Thursday, December 12, 2013
Sunday, December 8, 2013
Infinity Bracelet Give-Away!
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Monday, December 2, 2013
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Thursday, November 21, 2013
Black Friday Extended Weekend Sale for In Fine Feathers!
I'm not going to lie, I really do love this time of year!
Don't be just another shopper in their line this year, make a difference, shop handmade and support local small business and get something truly unique that was made with love and not made in a sweatshop!
Monday, July 15, 2013
Dance Hoop Contest at the Lioness of Central Square Apple Festival
In Fine Feathers is back again this year to vend at the Lioness of Central Square Apple Festival!
We are hosting a Dance Hoop Contest with prizes for 1st, 2nd and 3rd place!
Date: Sunday Sept. 29th
Time: 1:00pm
Location: Brewerton Speedway at the Lioness of Central Square Apple Festival
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1st Place: Wins a Large Henna Tattoo with glitter and jewels, Apple Pie, Apple Fritters and Machine Embroidered 1st Place Iron-On Patch
2nd Place: Wins Apple Pie, Apple Fritters and Machine Embroidered 2nd Place Iron-On Patch
3rd Place: Wins Apple Pie, Apple Fritters and Machine Embroidered 3rd Place Iron-On Patch
Dance Hoops will be sold on-site at In Fine Feathers' booth for $15!
Live music by Isreal Hagan and the Stroke during the contest!
Judging based on Creativity and ability to flow with the music!
Extra points for fun costumes!
For more information contact Anita at finefeatheredfinds@gmail.com
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Tuesday, March 19, 2013
CNY Etsy Team: Interview with In Fine Feathers
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Saturday, February 23, 2013
Who Would Actually Wear A Headdress?
The headdress known for it's roots in Native American culture has gained a lot of attention in mainstream as well as counterculture. We can thank Victoria's Secret for the fashion show that angered our natives to the extent they spoke against the women wearing headdresses.
The belief that is upheld by Native Americans about headdresses is that they are only to be worn by Native American men that have earned the headdress through an act of courage or valor. This is troubling for non-natives that are inspired by the beauty of the headdress as well as a symbolism that the headdress means to them, personally.
Americans have been trying to find their own culture since our ancestors arrived here, by whatever means. My family has been here for just three generations with my Grandfather arriving here in 1904. While my family has done well to preserve our authentic Italian traditions, we still are influenced by the culture we live in now, American culture. Culture is determined by the people we are surrounded by, the towns and cities we live in as well as the technology we have access to. Americans, dwellers of the great melting pot, have learned through the years the values of respecting eachother's differences to accepting them and eventually adopting them as values of their own. This is essential for peace in a society with so many differences. In a way, we are all striving to see a little of ourselves in eachother.
Let's ask ourselves a couple of questions. Is it possible for the love of headdresses to exist among the American culture as well as the Native American culture? The answer is of course, we love beautiful things, especially handmade. Why put out that fire?
Do warriors still exist in American culture? A warrior is someone that has succeeded in a battle and has attributes of bravery and strength.
If you believe a warrior can be someone that has had to summon inner-strength to overcome health issues, family or personal struggles, spirituality, status or economic difficulties and fully utilized it as empowerment to defeat the odds, then warriors exist in all cultures.
What is is about a headdress that means so much? This can be broken down into the contents. The feathers, that once belonged to the ever symbolic bird. The feathered creature, Phoenix arises out of the depths and continues with new life. The bird that flies above, from tree top to tree top, has complete control of it's placement in life. We have always been infatuated by the bird's abilities. It could be argued that the roots of wearing feathers could be an act of our trying to adopt another culture, possibly of our aviary friends? Also, how did the person making the headdress gain access to the feathers?
The method for obtaining the feathers should absolutely have meaning with respect to the headdress. It is possible that the warrior killed the bird for food, for family and then used the remains of feathers to create a headdress to be worn out of respect for the bird that gave the ultimate gift, this should be reflected in the headdress. It is also possible that instead of survival, the headdress was made out of the pure respect for beauty, using naturally molted feathers. There are some that collect the feathers off the ground, that have fallen from the bird that no longer requires them. Collecting these feathers for use in a headdress is simply to say that we admire the beauty of the feathers and the birds that they came from. There are also headdresses that have been made as a mockery to Native American culture, mass produced, with roots in slaughter houses, assembled in factories and popping up on mart shelves and craft supply stores. As a side note, I would say that it is as important to know where your supplies come from as it is to know where your food comes from.
A headdress is a fashion statement that is associated with power, status and respect. These are all areas in our lives that we seek to dwell in, even for a few hours. It is in our desire to explore our own connection with divinity. It is in our respective physical space. One simply cannot enter into buildings with short ceilings while wearing a headdress. We need room to grow, room to contain our ever expanding consciousness.
To see headdresses I have created through naturally molted feather, head over to In Fine Feathers' Headdress Collection
The belief that is upheld by Native Americans about headdresses is that they are only to be worn by Native American men that have earned the headdress through an act of courage or valor. This is troubling for non-natives that are inspired by the beauty of the headdress as well as a symbolism that the headdress means to them, personally.
Americans have been trying to find their own culture since our ancestors arrived here, by whatever means. My family has been here for just three generations with my Grandfather arriving here in 1904. While my family has done well to preserve our authentic Italian traditions, we still are influenced by the culture we live in now, American culture. Culture is determined by the people we are surrounded by, the towns and cities we live in as well as the technology we have access to. Americans, dwellers of the great melting pot, have learned through the years the values of respecting eachother's differences to accepting them and eventually adopting them as values of their own. This is essential for peace in a society with so many differences. In a way, we are all striving to see a little of ourselves in eachother.
Let's ask ourselves a couple of questions. Is it possible for the love of headdresses to exist among the American culture as well as the Native American culture? The answer is of course, we love beautiful things, especially handmade. Why put out that fire?
Do warriors still exist in American culture? A warrior is someone that has succeeded in a battle and has attributes of bravery and strength.
If you believe a warrior can be someone that has had to summon inner-strength to overcome health issues, family or personal struggles, spirituality, status or economic difficulties and fully utilized it as empowerment to defeat the odds, then warriors exist in all cultures.
What is is about a headdress that means so much? This can be broken down into the contents. The feathers, that once belonged to the ever symbolic bird. The feathered creature, Phoenix arises out of the depths and continues with new life. The bird that flies above, from tree top to tree top, has complete control of it's placement in life. We have always been infatuated by the bird's abilities. It could be argued that the roots of wearing feathers could be an act of our trying to adopt another culture, possibly of our aviary friends? Also, how did the person making the headdress gain access to the feathers?
The method for obtaining the feathers should absolutely have meaning with respect to the headdress. It is possible that the warrior killed the bird for food, for family and then used the remains of feathers to create a headdress to be worn out of respect for the bird that gave the ultimate gift, this should be reflected in the headdress. It is also possible that instead of survival, the headdress was made out of the pure respect for beauty, using naturally molted feathers. There are some that collect the feathers off the ground, that have fallen from the bird that no longer requires them. Collecting these feathers for use in a headdress is simply to say that we admire the beauty of the feathers and the birds that they came from. There are also headdresses that have been made as a mockery to Native American culture, mass produced, with roots in slaughter houses, assembled in factories and popping up on mart shelves and craft supply stores. As a side note, I would say that it is as important to know where your supplies come from as it is to know where your food comes from.
A headdress is a fashion statement that is associated with power, status and respect. These are all areas in our lives that we seek to dwell in, even for a few hours. It is in our desire to explore our own connection with divinity. It is in our respective physical space. One simply cannot enter into buildings with short ceilings while wearing a headdress. We need room to grow, room to contain our ever expanding consciousness.
To see headdresses I have created through naturally molted feather, head over to In Fine Feathers' Headdress Collection
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